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Capitalism Hates Moms
This week, Senator Joe Manchin insisted any extension of the Child Tax Credit payments should include a work requirement.
"Before you start saying, ‘is it going to be permanent?’, let's see how we're doing this. Let's make sure that we're getting it to the right people.“
And who would that be, Joe?
"There's no work requirements whatsoever. There's no education requirements whatsoever for better skill sets – Don't you think if we want to help the children, the people should make some effort?"
Strong words from a fellow whose entire industry takes August off work like classical Versailles. But I guess budgeting has never been politicians’ strong suit.
Read MoreWomen Are Not Men!
What is Woman?
After centuries of having this question answered for us, we have struggled to rise to the opportunity of defining ourselves. It’s become an individual project, each woman left to figure it out alone because the thing we all have in common is portrayed as our greatest weakness.
The primordial origins of what it is to be female have been weaponized against us so effectively that we are terrified of them. To even suggest that the potential to gestate offspring is fundamental to femaleness is controversial, and feminism has traditionally been about exploring all the other things women can do.
Read MoreThe Right-Wing Radicalization of Young Girls
Something wicked is brewing in conservative America.
The same culture wars that birthed incels have impacted the girls who won’t date them just as much.
Our refusal to draw mothering into the fold leaves a lot of girls feeling conflicted. Feminism fails them as long as it ignores the more nuanced questions of many women’s lives.
Jen at Fundie Fridays knows a lot about it, “The misogyny on Caitlin’s channel is rampant and direct. She often uses the same talking points as incels when expressing her worldview.”
Read MoreFeminism Really Does Need Moms, Though
The pandemic has demonstrated how little has actually changed for women.
We spent the past year getting used to being at home. Many lost their jobs, or quit to take care of the kids. Many more soldiered on, playing Mom, Wife and Worker on a single, ramshackle set. Meanwhile, Joe Biden executive-ordered us out of legal existence.
Adding insult to injury, #NotAllMen refuses to go away.
The response #TooManyWomen was pretty satisfying, but it exposed some confusion in the feminist conversation.
How Many Men?
“No one is saying that it’s all men,“ wrote one commenter, “so we don’t need to say ‘not all men.’“
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